Heart Break Hotel

Heartbreak, we've all been there. When the alarm bells ring, but, we decide that either we know better than to listen to our gut (big mistake) or that we have to try. So we ignore that little voice in the back of our minds. We know we will regret it, but, we do it anyway...

<Insert amount of time here> passes and we realize that it just isn't working, but, neither one of us wants to be the one who ends it, so we pretend that it is working... We pretend that we are happy, only to be disappointed. The relationship ends and we are upset. We hurt, we mope, we may even cry. We tell ourselves, "I knew this was going to happen, and I didn't listen". 

We are all human, we all make the same mistakes, and regardless of what we like to tell ourselves, we will do it again. The truth is, there is no perfect relationship. There is no perfect white picket (or wood) fence. There will be fights, there will be bad nights, there will be disagreements. The part we all have to learn is which battles to pick. Which ones are worth it? Which ones aren't? Which soldiers in these battles are better left unpicked for our own emotional dodgeball games? Those are answers that only we know, despite what our friends think...

Friends are people to, which means... They will disappoint you and you will disappoint them. Like it or not that is the way it is. But at the end of the day, a true friend will be there for you. A true friend will be honest, whether you want to hear it or not. A true friend will let you make your mistake (and not think that they are superman lol). A true friend will disappoint you, but the disappointment will never be so high that they will need to be kicked out of the inner circle. And during that heartbreak, a true friend will try to help you through it. That's what we are here for.